At first, when you ask yourself should I get back with an ex, it may seem like an obvious answer…yes! They were perfect, we had so many great moments together; the romantic dates to the movies, the passionate moments in bed, even down to the “gazes” and the little touches.
It’s nice to dwell in the past when we’re feeling down, however is it really you making a level headed decision on whether you truly want your ex back?
Take a step back and view it objectively i.e. without your personal feelings getting in the way. Were all those romantic gestures still there before you broke up? Or had they subsided a long time ago? Was there still a glimmer of love in their eyes when you looked at each other? Or had they stopped seeing you as their special one months ago?
Do not dwell on what has already been. If you want to learn how to get your ex back, then you must first be sure that they are worth your time.
Think hard on this one…
If you’re now 100% sure then you’re now ready to move onto laying the foundations to get your ex back: the hardest part.